Why pay compliments?
“I can live two months on a good compliment” - Mark Twain
When someone receives a compliment, the person who receives the praise enjoys feeling noticed and valued. At the same time the giver can also bask in the connection made. With every compliment given, a bond is established, trust is built, and conversation encouraged.
Here are a few suggestions to make the most of giving and receiving of compliments:
1) Be genuine. False praise is easy to spot, and it undermines your trustworthiness.
2) Avoid giving back-handed compliments, such as “Though you are dark, you are still pretty.”
3) Be as specific as possible. Avoid vagueness such as: “I like how you re-decorated your living room.” Be specific such as: “I like the color choice of your living room walls. It matches perfectly with the cushions and curtains.”
4) Never brush off a compliment given to you. It’s like returning a gift.
5) Smile and say thank you when you receive a compliment.
6) Look for something specific to compliment whenever you meet someone. You'll be surprised to see how good the world starts looking.
Try this for today and do it for one full day each week. This will get you to enjoy the world far more than you are doing now.
“I can live two months on a good compliment” - Mark Twain
When someone receives a compliment, the person who receives the praise enjoys feeling noticed and valued. At the same time the giver can also bask in the connection made. With every compliment given, a bond is established, trust is built, and conversation encouraged.
Here are a few suggestions to make the most of giving and receiving of compliments:
1) Be genuine. False praise is easy to spot, and it undermines your trustworthiness.
2) Avoid giving back-handed compliments, such as “Though you are dark, you are still pretty.”
3) Be as specific as possible. Avoid vagueness such as: “I like how you re-decorated your living room.” Be specific such as: “I like the color choice of your living room walls. It matches perfectly with the cushions and curtains.”
4) Never brush off a compliment given to you. It’s like returning a gift.
5) Smile and say thank you when you receive a compliment.
6) Look for something specific to compliment whenever you meet someone. You'll be surprised to see how good the world starts looking.
Try this for today and do it for one full day each week. This will get you to enjoy the world far more than you are doing now.
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